Status: Tags: Links: Pyramid of Personal Connection
Intention
“Why are you confused?” vs “Just to see if anyone else is experiencing the same issues, what are you confused about?”
Principles
- Intent gives us the potential to ask powerful questions
Consquences
- Our prepraration and knowledge of a topic is futile if we don’t also focus on our audience
- Make it an intention to not just present, but to share the knowledge
Benefits
- By sharing and being clear with our intention, we invite others to grow and evolve by allowing participation
- If we lack a strong intention, people may be skeptical to open up, especially if the question is vulnerable
Downfalls
Cultivation
Advice
- Non-judgmental expression that benefits the group
- Questions include:
- What are you aiming for?
- What is your purpose?
- What are you trying to achieve?
Tools
- Be open with what we know
- Consider the Types of Intentions
- Ask clarifying “we” questions
- Using “we” makes it more inclusive and cooperative
- Encourages accountability
- Express Vulnerability
- Finding unity through shared intentions is worth the occasional judgement
- State your intention before asking the question
- Have a default and general intention in conversations
- Expressing intention in groups
Traps
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Created:: 2021-07-05 22:07