Status: Tags: Rapport Links: Curiosity
Letting curiosity guide us in conversation
Principles
- Ask people about the characteristics you want to learn more about
- We can be curious of things we don’t like
Consquences
Benefits
Downfalls
Cultivation
Advice
- When in a constrained appearance setting (uniforms), finding and acknowledging a person’s attempts to be unique will flatter them
- Cultivate curiosity by asking:
- What is this moment teaching me?
- Keep peeling away the layers to try and find deeper meaning
- ex) I have a lot of hand-made projects around me → I like learning about the stories of objects → I love learning about how things work
- Keep peeling away the layers to try and find deeper meaning
- What is happening here that I am curious about?
- How does this person see the world from their perspective?
- What items of mine express certain beliefs?
- ex) Comfortable shoes expresses our desire to stay outdoors for long periods of time
- What is this moment teaching me?
Practices
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Created:: 2021-07-05 22:07