Status: Tags: Links: Interpersonal Relationships
Non-Biased Judgement
Beliefs
- Confidence entails believing in others, even if they have no reason to
- By having confidence in others, we forge deep relationships that allow the cultivation of joy for both parties
- Praising or rebuking in personal interactions develop a sense of hierarchy and manipulation
- The more one is praised by another person, the more one forms the belief that one has no ability
- Rather than praise, we should just appreciate their efforts and for just being there
- ex) If a relative is injured from a car crash, they are immobilized and can’t do anything, but you are grateful for their presence
- ex) Instead of comparing your child to the likes of others, just be grateful that they exist in the first place
- When lacking the courage, people have to start somewhere
- Rather than praise, we should just appreciate their efforts and for just being there
- The more one is praised by another person, the more one forms the belief that one has no ability
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